Anal sex isn't necessarily! And even that's part is adjustable— if you or your partner for that matter don't happen to possess a penis, strap-on a dildo and go all-n with a pegging session. Here are your anal caveats. Some people, for whatever reason, are super resistant to anything back there. Definitely talk before touching someone's ass—no one likes surprise anal. If one of you is sketchy about butt stuff, but still open to the idea, just start with some beginner moves like rubbing a well-lubricated finger around the outside of the anus and assess.
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The Best Anal Sex Positions for Beginner to Advanced Play | Shape
Katy Thorn August 13, For as long as there have been people, there have been people having sex. And for as long as there have been people having sex, there have been hundreds of positions devised to do it in. A quick glance at the Kama Sutra — a veritable compendium of penetrative positions — shows us that there is more than one way to skin a cat. For all of these different positions we could name and describe off the top of our heads, it is still surprising how few people know when it comes to anal sex positions. This one could also be called the cowboy — obviously — and it is very enjoyable for the partner who is being penetrated, as it lets them control the speed and depth of thrusting.
11 Tips for First-Time Anal Sex
You know that iconic moment when Oprah gave away a car to everyone in the audience? And you get to try anal! Sound crazy? Or actually like Crocs!
We checked in with some experts and asked them to take the mystery out of anal sex, and they schooled us on some positions that can help ease you into your first time to actually make it an enjoyable experience. In the traditional cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you mount on top — yeehaw! As the partner on top, you can ease into anal penetration by moving up or down as needed.