The phrase "familiarity breeds contempt" applies to sex, too. Going through all the same motions in the bedroom, time and time again, doesn't exactly help in the love department. Relationship experts recommend keeping things spontaneous , whether that means trying a different time, place, sex position, or just generally being more adventurous. The goal is to avoid falling into a cycle of boring "duty" sex, but also to foster healthy habits in a long-term relationship. We asked 11 real women for their favorite sex moves, then consulted sex experts for their tips on how to upgrade your own go-to moves so they feel new and exciting. In short, it doesn't take a Kama Sutra master to have better sex—it's really about breaking from habit, exploring the unknown, and enhancing what already works.
Sex Positions for Women Who Don’t Orgasm Easily
Best Sex Positions for Women - Sex Positions to Orgasm Every Time
Sometimes you want to have sex standing up, other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you want to try a kinky position , or one that lets your partner go really really deep. Then there are those times when you just want all the control. When those dominant feels strike, there's just one course of action to take: get on top. A woman-on-top sex position will let you dictate the depth and angle of penetration, as well as the speed, plus it may be able to help you reach orgasm more easily, says Reba Thomas , a pleasure-positive sex educator and CEO of Sexpert Consultants, a company that specializes in adult sex health education.
The Best Sex Positions Ever
If you're having penetrative sex and you're not getting off, you might be wondering what the heck is wrong. And, really, that would be a shame. Especially because it's actually easier to have a clit orgasm than one from penetrative sex alone. And those legs are a great way to have extra stimulation during penetration. So, if you're officially convinced to give it a go, these are the best sex positions for women because they focus on clitoral stimulation—and, as a result, may just be the best sex positions for orgasm too.
I mean, if Joanna Angel is enjoying getting twisted around like a Kama Sutra-inspired pretzel, chances are your lady will too, right? Sexual positions are not all created equal, especially for women. Disclaimer: Not all women are created equal. This is a generalization.